Use your fokken common sense with dating apps, please!

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The article I published earlier today about Swaaibraai, the local Afrikaans movie with a swingers app as central theme, made me wonder about the real dating apps out there. I honestly have no fucking idea how it works as I have never had the need for it, so if my wife goes through my browsing history and sees an entry for “How does Tinder work?”, I might be in kak, but it is totally is for research purposes and for the other two people out there who is not on the app, this is what I found:

You install the app, connect it to Facebook, verify your phone number, upload some photos of yourself, give them your location, preferred radius and age range and then you start swiping – left for nay and right for yay. Then you wait for matches and start messaging the ones interested. Pretty low grade stuff.

Now let me show how to apply  some fokken common sense to this app, without ever having used it myself. I’m just going to base this on how to approach any platform online. This is not exclusively for dating apps because the same set of obvious unspoken rules will apply to WhatsApp, Facebook messenger, SMSes, letters or little notes strapped to pigeons.

Your photos
If you’re going put yourself out there with kak photos, you’re not going to get very far. People say not to judge a book by its cover, but they are all liars. They judge kak hard. Taking a photo of yourself in the mirror in your speedo is fine. The more a person gets to see of you, the easier it makes their swipe decision on face value. Taking a photo of yourself in your speedo with unmade bed in the background tells prospective suitors that you’re a slob. And taking one where you can accidentally see your used strap-on on the bedside table. Well…

Your ability or lack thereof to read with comprehension
So if someone puts this ad out on Facebook:
2012 Red VW Golf 6, full service history. Accident free. 135,000km. R135k, not negotiable. Vereeniging.
And your very first comment is: “Hi, where are you from. I have R90k cash” then you’re going to fucking struggle your poes off to find someone to broeknaai at the movies. Because you come across as fucking dumb.

Your own bio
Needless to say, if you have kak bio, you’re gonna probably die alone. And stuff like “I can bench press a donkey” probably only impresses your mom, in which case, you should probably date her.

Going for for the try line as soon as the whistle blows
We get that you’re as horny as a Dallas without a Debby and that you’re probably into this solely for the sex, but “Nice shoes, wanna fuck?” should probably only be brought up after the fourth date at Spur.

Don’t let the conversation lose momentum
All stories except Days Of Our Lives have a beginning, middle and end. If you keep waffling on about the same thing, Miss Right is gonna get bored quickly. If “and then” frequents your conversations, you’re on episode 342 of Days. And also, to make things less boring – don’t lie about things or make up fancy stories. If you’re not an interesting person, date someone  as boring as yourself, take up knitting or make friends with a bag of potatoes.

Don’t be a picky prick.
*Gets out megaphone and clears throat*
“I’ve tried…”

Know when to stop
Eloquently put in Elsa from Frozen’s words: “Let it go!”
Don’t be fokken creepy. Let the other person steer the conversation and the amount of conversation there is to be had. One reply of “Cool” probably only means “cool” – it doesn’t mean “marry me and have my babies and visit me immediately to make said babies”

And for the love of all that is sacred – don’t send dick picks. Its not special. Dicks are just uglier, more bendy versions of fingers that need to stay out of sight.

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Our randomized trailer pick of the week

Each week we take a number from 1 to 10 from our list of suggestions and put it through a randomizer to choose a trailer to show you. This week it landed on our number 2 spot, Don’t F*ck With Cats: Hunting An Internet Killer!

When a video is posted online of a mysterious man killing two kittens, internet users across the world leap into action to find the perpetrator. Encouraged by the attention he’s receiving, the killer continues posting ever more disturbing videos, eventually crossing into murder. From the producers of The Imposter and Silk Road

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